Bad bosses - why theyre bad and what to do about them - The Chief Happiness Officer Blog

Bad bosses - why theyre bad and what to do about them - The Chief Happiness Officer Blog Our brand?new?study of what makes people unhappy at work has a number of?interesting findings but none more relevant (or discouraging) than this one: The #1 cause of unhappiness at work is bad bosses. This is hardly news we know this already from several other studies. Its partly about results So why are bad bosses bad? Partly, theres a sense that the?boss is not there for employees?work-wise, is always too busy with his own tasks to help them or simply has no insight or no interest in the work they do. 40% of respondents in our survey mentioned A lack of help and support from my boss as one?cause of their most recent bad work day. 37% mention Uncertainty about the workplace?s vision and strategy. One person wrote: I love my actual job. It is rarely job specific tasks that make my days go bad. It is almost always frustration about having to work through hierarchy despite that fact that my boss is recognized as ineffective throughout the organization. (just writing that made my day better!) Another wrote: ?My boss suddenly started to instruct me on things that Ive done for 15 years. Very annoying.? When you lack support from the boss, it becomes unreasonably hard to do your job well and get?good results. And?getting great results that you can be proud of is a major source of happiness at work. But its also about relationships 35% of respondents name bad behavior from bosses as one?cause?of unhappiness at work. One person wrote: ?My boss contributes to the bulk of the cause of everything else that is bad at work. We have a new director, and my job has not changed. Just bosses changed. I used to love my job. Now I hate it.? Good workplace relationships and social support are crucial for our happiness at work and studies show that the most important workplace relationship is with the immediate manager. When?employees have a good?relationship with the boss, they are much more likely to be happy at work. When they know that the boss sees them, respects them, trusts them and appreciates them personally and professionally. On the other hand, when bosses?show that they dont care about their people, e.g. by being rude, disrespectful or simply by ignoring them,?it is a clear sign of bad relationships and this makes employees miserable. Crucially, this bad behavior can come from both?the immediate manager or from?executives higher up on the org chart. One respondent wrote: ?I love my new boss, but the c-suite is clueless and mean.? Another wrote: ?My VP is an HR nightmare. He constantly makes derogatory remarks about employees behind closed doors during meetings that I?m forced to attend.? So its not enough to have a good team managers, the whole company must have a good?leadership culture?and top executives who are highly visible inside the organization must be good leaders. Dire consequences The negative effects of bad bosses are profound. Our study showed that 2 out of 3 employees had at least 1 bad work day every week. 19% say they have a bad day at work every day or almost every day. When the bad work days become too many, ?they can?really harm people at work and at home. And as mentioned, the #1 factor that makes bad work days bad is the boss. Respondents wrote: ?This is the first position I have ever held where I actually hate my job. I never understood people who say ?I hate my job!? or who constantly complain about their work lives until this last year. Now I know what those people are talking about.? ?I don?t sleep well at night, when I have a bad day at work because the anticipation and anxiety of the next day is always on my mind.? Bad bosses are bad. Thank you, Captain Obvious. So what do we?do about them? Given that?bad bosses are the most common cause of unhappiness at work and given the negative effects they have on employees and on the companys results, we clearly need to do something about this problem. Here are our top 5 suggestions. 1: Realize that good?leadership is about happiness Good bosses are happy themselves and do their best to make the employees, the customers and maybe even the world a little happier. Therefore, workplaces must?realize the value of these happy leaders and do everything they can to celebrate and spread their good example. 2: Hire and train managers for happiness On?an organizational level, we can recognize that good management skills are not an inherent trait in most people. Its something we can look?for when we select people for management positions, and something we must systematically train?bosses to do well. The best way to do that, is to realize that the?best leaders?have excellent relationship-building skills. They are excellent at understanding and relating to many different kinds of people bad bosses relate?only to people who are like themselves. 3: Listen to employees problems Additionally, managers need?to listen to employees and take them seriously when they see problems in the workplace. Bad bosses cant take criticism and?dont care about any problems their employees face. 4: Stop bad managers And crucially, we need to stop bad managers. Every workplace has them;?bosses who should not be bosses because they lack the professional or personal skills to manage?well. If bad?bosses can not learn to be good bosses, they need to stop being bosses altogether. One company even lets all employees rate their managers twice a year and the resulting scores are published for the whole company to see, creating massive pressure on bad bosses to mend their ways. Most importantly: Never ever accept?jerks in?management positions. Theyre incredibly toxic. 5: Learn to recognize and deal with bad bosses On an individual level, each of us can learn to recognize bad management when we see it and realize exactly just how?badly it affects us professionally and personally. ?And if?you find yourself working for a bad manager with no desire or skill to?improve their ways, the best (or even the only) solution may be to quit and go work somewhere else. Thanks for visiting my blog. If you're new here, you should check out this list of my 10 most popular articles. And if you want more great tips and ideas you should check out our newsletter about happiness at work. It's great and it's free :-)Share this:LinkedInFacebookTwitterRedditPinterest Related